1 Corinthians 7:38 says that both marrying and staying unmarried can be good choices, but that staying unmarried is the better one for the sake of focused devotion to the Lord. The verse closes a passage in which Paul, the apostle, gives counsel to the church in Corinth about marriage and singleness during a time of pressure and uncertainty. He wrote it to Christians in that city who were asking practical questions about how to live faithfully in their relationships.
So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.
1 Corinthians 7:38 (WEB)
What 1 Corinthians 7:38 Means
The verse begins with “So then,” which tells you it is a summary of the reasoning that came before. Paul has just described a man who has settled his own mind about his unmarried daughter or fiancée, and he now states the conclusion plainly: the decision to marry her is a good one, and the decision to leave her unmarried is also a good one. Neither path is sinful, and neither is a mistake.
The phrase “does better” is where the emphasis falls. Paul is not condemning marriage. He is saying that, for a person who can remain single with a settled heart, staying unmarried allows a freedom to serve the Lord without the many daily concerns that a marriage brings. This fits with the wider teaching of the chapter, where Paul says he wishes everyone could live as he does, while admitting that God gives different gifts to different people.
The verse does not promise that single people will be happier or that married people are spiritually behind. It also does not set a rule for every believer. It describes a comparison between two good options and gives a reason for preferring one in a particular situation.
The Context of 1 Corinthians 7:38
First Corinthians is a letter Paul wrote to a church he had founded in Corinth, a busy port city known for its wealth, mixed population and moral looseness. The church had written to him with questions, and this chapter answers several of them about sex, marriage, divorce and whether believers should change their social status after coming to faith. Paul writes as an apostle with pastoral concern, and his audience was a community facing real social pressure.
Just before the verse, Paul explains that he wants people to be free from anxious distraction so they can serve the Lord well (verse 35). Verse 36 and 37 describe the father’s decision in detail. Verse 39 follows with the teaching that a widow is free to remarry, but only “in the Lord.” Read this way, verse 38 is a hinge between practical guidance and a larger concern for undivided devotion, which is why it should not be pulled out and treated as a standalone rule.
Key Phrases in 1 Corinthians 7:38
1 Corinthians 7:7
Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.
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Here Paul says that each person has a gift from God, one of marriage and another of singleness. This verse supports the idea in 7:38 that both paths are gifts and that believers should not measure their worth by their relationship status.
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it…
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This passage shows the high calling of married love, with husbands loving their wives as Christ loved the church. It helps balance 7:38 by showing that marriage, though it brings many concerns, is a serious and holy calling that deserves full commitment.
A Short Prayer From 1 Corinthians 7:38
Lord, you know the choices I face and the hopes I carry about my future. Help me to trust that you are guiding me, whether that path leads toward marriage or toward a single life devoted to you. Quiet the pressure I feel from others and from my own expectations. Give me a settled heart and a clear mind so that I can serve you with undivided devotion. Whatever I choose, let it be a faithful choice made in your presence. Amen.
