1 Corinthians 7:38 says that a man who gives his daughter in marriage does well, and a man who keeps her unmarried does better. Paul is not ranking marriage as sinful or singleness as holy; he is saying that both are good callings, and that the second can be more useful for serving the Lord without distraction. The words come from the apostle Paul, who wrote to the church in Corinth, a busy port city where believers faced real pressure over sex, marriage, and daily life.
So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.
1 Corinthians 7:38 (WEB)
What 1 Corinthians 7:38 Means
The verse opens with “So then,” which tells you it is a conclusion drawn from the paragraph before it. Paul has been discussing whether a man should marry his fiancée or keep her unmarried, and he is wrapping up his advice. “Gives his own virgin in marriage” refers to a father or guardian arranging a daughter’s marriage, a common practice in the ancient Mediterranean world. Paul calls that act good, so he is not condemning it.
The phrase “does better” is the heart of the verse. The comparison is not between right and wrong, but between two good options with different advantages. Paul is weighing practical circumstances, especially the troubles he describes elsewhere in the chapter, such as “distress in the flesh.” The verse does not promise that staying single brings a better life or a closer walk with God. It says that in certain situations, not marrying can allow a person to give more undivided attention to the Lord’s work.
The Context of 1 Corinthians 7:38
First Corinthians is a letter Paul wrote to a church he had founded, responding to questions and problems brought to him, some by letter and some by report. Chapter 7 begins with the words “Now concerning the things about which you wrote,” which means Paul is answering specific questions about marriage, celibacy, and divorce. Many of the Corinthians seem to have held mixed views about sexual life, and Paul writes to correct extremes on both sides.
The verses just before and after this one matter a great deal. In verse 35 Paul says he is giving this advice “for your own profit,” not to restrict them, so that they may serve the Lord “without distraction.” Verse 39 then describes a widow who is free to remarry, “only in the Lord,” and verse 40 says she is happier if she stays as she is. Read this way, verse 38 is not an order to marry or to remain single. It is practical counsel within a larger discussion about what helps believers serve God faithfully.
Key Phrases in 1 Corinthians 7:38
1 Corinthians 7:35
This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction.
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This verse comes just before verse 38 and states Paul’s purpose plainly: his advice is meant for the believers’ benefit, so that they can serve the Lord without distraction. Reading it first helps you see that verse 38 is about practical usefulness in God’s service, not a verdict on marriage.
Ephesians 5:31-32
31 “For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly.
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Paul elsewhere speaks of marriage as a profound picture of Christ and the church, which shows how deeply he valued it. Reading this passage alongside verse 38 keeps you from concluding that Paul looked down on marriage, since he also describes it with great honor.
A Short Prayer From 1 Corinthians 7:38
Lord, you know the hopes and decisions I carry today, including the ones about marriage, singleness, and the work you have given me. Help me to see my circumstances clearly and to receive your guidance with humility. Keep me from comparing my path with someone else’s, and give me freedom to serve you wholeheartedly where I am. Whatever season I am in, let my heart stay steady in your love and attentive to your purposes. Amen.
