In this lesson, children learn that love is more important than being right, because love helps others grow strong in faith. This lesson is for children ages 5 to 11 and takes about 20 to 30 minutes.
Big Idea
Being right about something is good, but caring about our friends is better. We should be kind so we never make someone else stumble.
Memory Verse
1 Corinthians 8:1
Now concerning things sacrificed to idols: We know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.
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Hold both hands together in front of your chest, then slowly open them wide like a book. Say the words together as you open your hands, showing that love helps things grow and build up.
The Story: 1 Corinthians 8 for Kids
Long ago, the people in the city of Corinth lived among many idols, which were statues that some people wrongly worshiped as gods. Meat was often sold in the market after it had been offered to these idols. Some Christians wondered whether they could eat that meat.
The apostle Paul wrote a letter to help them. He explained that there is only one true God, the Father, and one Lord, Jesus Christ. The idols are not real gods, so the meat itself does not change anything. Paul said, “Knowing this is good, but knowing is not the most important thing.”
Paul then reminded them that not everyone understood this yet. Some believers had grown up honoring idols, and when they ate that meat, their hearts felt troubled and mixed up. Seeing others eat it made them feel that they were doing something wrong.
So Paul gave a simple rule. If eating something might cause a friend to feel confused or fall back into sin, then it is better to be loving and not eat it. Paul said, “If food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat again, so I do not cause him to fall.”
Read It Together
1 Corinthians 8:4
Therefore concerning the eating of things sacrificed to idols, we know that no idol is anything in the world, and that there is no other God but one.
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Point out that Paul says the idols are nothing in the world, and there is only one God. Help children see that this is something true we can hold on to.
1 Corinthians 8:7
However, that knowledge isn’t in all men. But some, with consciousness of the idol until now, eat as of a thing sacrificed to an idol, and their conscience, being weak, is defiled.
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Explain that some people are still learning and feel unsure, and their hearts can be hurt by things others do. Ask children to notice how Paul is thinking about his friends.
1 Corinthians 8:13
Therefore if food causes my brother to stumble, I will eat no meat forever more, that I don’t cause my brother to stumble.
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Show children that Paul was willing to give up something he was allowed to do so his brother would not stumble. Point out that this is what love looks like in real life.
Talk About It
- Why do you think Paul said that love builds people up?
- What is a time when you knew something was true but still chose to be kind to a friend?
- How can we tell if something we do might make a friend feel confused or sad?
- What are some things you could give up to help someone else grow stronger in their faith?
- How does knowing that God loves us change the way we treat other people?
Activity Ideas
Build Up a Tower of Blocks
You will need a set of building blocks or small boxes from around the house. Ask children to stack the blocks into a tall tower while you talk about how love builds people up. Explain that one careless move can knock the tower over, just as carelessness can hurt a friend. Let them rebuild it slowly and carefully.
Walk Gently Game
Set up a path with pillows or paper cups on the floor. Have children walk across it one at a time, stepping carefully so they do not knock anything over. Tell them that just as they walk carefully for their friends, we should live carefully so no one else stumbles in faith. Cheer each child who reaches the end.
Take-Home Heart Card
Give each child a sheet of paper and crayons, and ask them to draw a big heart with a small figure of a friend inside. Help them write or draw one way they can be kind to someone this week. Encourage them to take the card home and place it where they will see it each day.
Teacher Notes
For adults, this chapter teaches that knowledge alone can make us proud, but love helps us care for others who may be weaker or more easily troubled. Paul is not saying that the things we are free to do are always wrong, but that we should consider how our choices affect the people around us. Christian maturity includes choosing love over our own rights.
Be careful not to overstate the details of the Corinthian situation with children, since the specific question about meat sacrificed to idols is unfamiliar to them. Focus instead on the simple truth that love is more important than being right, and that we should be kind so no friend feels hurt or confused.
A Prayer to Close
Dear Jesus, thank you for loving us and showing us how to care for others. Help us remember that love helps people grow strong. When we know something, help us be kind and careful with our friends. Help us build each other up every day. Amen.
