Second Corinthians 10:18 says that the person who gets real approval is not the one who speaks well of himself, but the one whom the Lord commends. Paul wrote this to the church in Corinth, where some people were measuring their worth by how impressive they looked and how loudly they promoted themselves.
For it isn’t he who commends himself who is approved, but whom the Lord commends.
2 Corinthians 10:18 (WEB)
What 2 Corinthians 10:18 Means
The verse begins with a contrast. “He who commends himself” describes someone who puts his own name forward, praises his own résumé, and asks others to accept him on that basis. Paul says that kind of self-endorsement does not prove anything. Being impressive to other people is not the same as being approved.
The phrase “is approved” refers to passing a test, the way a coin is tested and found genuine. The approval that matters comes from “the Lord,” which in Paul’s writing means God and the risen Christ. The verse does not say that God approves of everyone who is humble, and it does not promise that faithful people will always be praised by others. It makes a narrower point: self-promotion cannot establish your standing before God, and only God’s judgment settles that question.
The Context of 2 Corinthians 10:18
Second Corinthians is one of Paul’s letters to the church he founded in Corinth, a busy port city with a mix of wealthy and poor believers and a strong culture of public speaking and rhetorical display. Paul wrote from a position of pastoral defense and affection. Some members had come to prefer rival teachers who were polished, persuasive, and eager to talk about their own credentials, and they had begun to doubt Paul’s apostolic authority.
Verses 15 and 16 show Paul refusing to take credit for work others had already done in the region, preferring to preach in places where the gospel had not yet arrived. In verse 17 he quotes the principle that anyone who boasts should boast in the Lord, which sets up verse 18. Read this way, the verse is not a general comment on modesty. It is Paul’s answer to a specific dispute about who is trustworthy, and his claim is that the only commendation worth having is the one God gives.
Key Phrases in 2 Corinthians 10:18
1 Corinthians 4:5
Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord comes, who will both bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and reveal the counsels of the hearts. Then each man will get his praise from God.
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Paul tells the Corinthians not to pass judgment too early, because the Lord will bring hidden things to light and each person will receive praise from God. This pairs directly with the idea that God’s commendation is the one that finally counts.
Proverbs 27:2
Let another man praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.
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This proverb warns against self-praise and advises that another person should do the commending. It reflects the same wisdom Paul builds on, that self-recommendation is weaker than the testimony of others, and ultimately of God.
A Short Prayer From 2 Corinthians 10:18
Lord, I notice how easily I try to earn my place by talking about myself. I want to be known for what is true and not for what I can make people believe. Free me from the need to win every comparison, and remind me that your approval is the only one that ultimately holds. Help me to work faithfully, speak honestly, and rest in the way you see me. Amen.
