Ephesians 4:25 tells believers to stop speaking falsely and to tell the truth to the people around them. Paul gives the reason in the same sentence: Christians belong to one another as parts of one body, so honesty is part of how that body stays healthy. The verse is written by the apostle Paul, traditionally considered the author of this letter, to the church in Ephesus and the believers in that region.
Therefore putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another.
Ephesians 4:25 (WEB)
What Ephesians 4:25 Means
The verse begins with “putting away falsehood,” which uses the image of taking off a set of old clothes. Paul has just described the old way of life as a garment to be removed, so lying is something a Christian sets aside, the way a person would drop a dirty coat at the door. The word for falsehood covers more than outright lies. It includes pretending, half-truths, and any speech meant to mislead.
The command that follows is “speak truth each one with his neighbor.” Paul says each person should speak truthfully to the people closest to them, not only in courtrooms or formal settings. The verse is about the everyday conversations that happen between neighbors, coworkers, family members, and fellow church members.
The verse does not promise that telling the truth will always feel comfortable or be rewarded in the short term. It describes what kind of people believers are becoming, and it gives the reason in the final sentence. Honesty is presented as the normal life of people who belong to God and to each other.
The Context of Ephesians 4:25
Ephesians is a letter that moves from big truths about God’s grace in the first three chapters into practical instruction in the last three. Chapter 4 begins Paul’s call for believers to walk in a manner worthy of their calling, and it emphasizes unity in the church. Verses 22 through 24 describe the change from the old self to the new self, created to reflect God’s righteousness and holiness.
Read in that setting, the verse is not a freestanding rule about speech. It is one example of what the new self looks like in daily life. Right after it, Paul addresses anger and stealing, which are also matters of how a person treats others. Truthfulness, in this section, is part of a larger pattern of restoring relationships that have been damaged by sin.
Key Phrases in Ephesians 4:25
Colossians 3:9
Don’t lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings…
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Paul gives a close parallel in this letter to the Colossians, telling believers not to lie to one another because they have put off the old self. Reading it alongside Ephesians 4:25 shows that the call to truthfulness was a consistent part of Paul’s teaching about the new life in Christ.
Proverbs 12:22
Lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, but those who do the truth are his delight.
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This proverb describes the Lord’s attitude toward lying lips and faithful people. It helps explain why Paul treats truthfulness as central to Christian character, since it reflects the character of God himself who delights in honesty.
A Short Prayer From Ephesians 4:25
Lord, you are the God of truth, and you have called me out of the habits of the old life. I confess the times I have shaded my words, hidden what I feel, or said what would please people instead of what is honest. Help me to put that falsehood away and speak truthfully to the people you have placed near me. Make me a member of your body who builds others up with honest words and honest care. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
