Matthew 15:5 describes a loophole that some religious leaders used to avoid caring for their aging parents. A person could claim that money or help they would otherwise have given was already dedicated to God, and so they were excused from supporting father or mother. Jesus says this is a way of dodging God’s commandment while appearing devout. He speaks these words to the Pharisees and scribes who had come from Jerusalem to question him about his disciples.
But you say, ‘Whoever may tell his father or his mother, “Whatever help you might otherwise have gotten from me is a gift devoted to God,”
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What Matthew 15:5 Means
The phrase “Whoever may tell his father or his mother” points to a specific act: a person declaring, usually as a formal vow, that their resources belonged to God and could not be spent on family. The words “Whatever help you might otherwise have gotten from me is a gift devoted to God” are the exact formula. Once spoken, the vow appeared to place the money out of reach, even if the person had no real intention of giving it to the temple.
Jesus is not condemning giving to God. He is condemning the use of a religious word to avoid a moral duty. The verse does not promise that offerings are wrong or that vows must never be made. It exposes a heart that treats God’s name as a shield against responsibility. Read this way, the verse asks whether our devotion ever becomes an excuse to neglect the people God has placed closest to us.
The Context of Matthew 15:5
Matthew, traditionally identified as the tax collector and disciple, wrote this Gospel for a community with strong Jewish roots, and it often highlights conflicts between Jesus and the religious establishment. Chapter 15 opens with a dispute over ritual hand-washing. Jesus responds by turning the question back on his critics, asking why they keep their own traditions at the cost of God’s commandments. Verses 3 and 4 quote the command to honor father and mother, then verse 5 shows how the tradition overrides it.
Seeing this sequence changes the verse. It is not a random example of hypocrisy but a direct test case. Jesus has set God’s clear command against human tradition, and the corban-style vow is the concrete example. The verse therefore reads as a sharp application of a principle: when a custom contradicts the plain demand of God, the custom must give way.
Key Phrases in Matthew 15:5
1 Timothy 5:8
But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.
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Paul writes that anyone who does not provide for their own family has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. It echoes the concern of Matthew 15:5 that religious identity must not excuse neglect of close relatives.
Mark 7:11-13
11 But you say, ‘If a man tells his father or his mother, “Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban, that is to say, given to God”;’ 12 then you no longer allow him to do anything for his father or his mother, 13 making void the word of God by your tradition, which you have handed down. You do many things like this.”
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Mark records the same episode and the same corban vow, adding Jesus’ words that the tradition makes the word of God void. Reading it alongside Matthew deepens the picture of how a religious formula can override a family command.
A Short Prayer From Matthew 15:5
Lord, you see the places where I have used religious words to protect my comfort. Search my heart and show me any gift or promise I have treated as a reason to pull back from the people you have given me to love. Give me the courage to honor my father and mother in deed as well as in word, and to give generously where you ask. Let my devotion to you grow in the same soil as my care for those closest to me. Amen.
