Psalm 109:5 describes a person who has been repaid with harm for kindness and with hatred for love. The speaker is not describing a minor disagreement; he is naming the particular pain of generosity that is answered with cruelty. The words come from King David, who writes them in a prayer addressed to God against enemies who have turned on him.
They have rewarded me evil for good, and hatred for my love.
Psalm 109:5 (WEB)
What Psalm 109:5 Means
The verse opens with the image of a repayment. In ordinary life, a good deed usually earns some gratitude in return, and the speaker assumes that as a baseline. Instead, his enemies have settled their account in the opposite currency, paying back good with evil. The sentence is a complaint about a broken social promise, the unspoken agreement that kindness will be met with at least basic decency.
The second half widens the wound. The word translated “hatred” points to deep, active enmity rather than a passing irritation, and it is set directly against “love,” which in this psalm refers to the speaker’s loyal, committed goodwill toward these people. The verse does not promise that the speaker will be vindicated in this life, nor does it tell readers how to feel when they are wronged. It simply names what happened and places it honestly before God.
The Context of Psalm 109:5
Psalm 109 belongs to the Psalter, the collection of Hebrew songs and prayers, and it is traditionally attributed to David. It is a psalm of lament and imprecation, meaning it pours out grief and includes strong requests for justice against wrongdoers. Its original audience would have been the worshiping community of Israel, who prayed these words in the temple or at home when they faced slander and betrayal.
The verses just before and after make the verse’s weight clearer. Verses 2 and 3 describe lying tongues and words of hatred that attacked the speaker without cause, and verse 4 says that he responded to his enemies’ hostility with prayer. Verses 6 through 8 then turn to pronounced requests for judgment. Read in this sequence, verse 5 is the emotional hinge: it explains why the speaker’s prayer is so intense. The sting of returned kindness is what drives the cry for justice.
Key Phrases in Psalm 109:5
Romans 12:21
Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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Paul writes this in the New Testament to believers who face evil done to them. It stands in quiet tension with Psalm 109:5: the psalmist voices pain and calls for justice, while Paul urges a response of good in return for evil. Reading the two together shows that honest lament and steadfast goodness can both belong to the life of faith.
Psalm 55:12-14
12 For it was not an enemy who insulted me, then I could have endured it. Neither was it he who hated me who raised himself up against me, then I would have hidden myself from him. 13 But it was you, a man like me, my companion, and my familiar friend. 14 We took sweet fellowship together. We walked in God’s house with company.
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This passage from another psalm of David expresses the grief of being betrayed by someone once trusted. It deepens the emotional picture of Psalm 109:5 by showing that the sting of betrayal is closely tied to broken friendship. Together the two passages help readers see that such pain is recognized throughout Scripture.
A Short Prayer From Psalm 109:5
Lord, you see the people who have repaid my kindness with harm, and you know how much it has hurt me. I bring my anger and my grief to you rather than carrying them alone or pretending they are not there. Help me to speak honestly about what has happened, and help me to trust your justice more than my own urge to strike back. Keep my heart from becoming hard, and let my prayers be shaped by your faithfulness. Amen.
