Proverbs 5:18 tells a husband to find joy and blessing within his own marriage, centered on the wife of his youth, rather than looking to others. The verse is part of a father’s counsel to his son, written in the poetic wisdom style of the book of Proverbs. Traditionally the book is attributed to Solomon, and the father speaks to a young man who is being tempted toward sexual unfaithfulness.
Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
Proverbs 5:18 (WEB)
What Proverbs 5:18 Means
The verse opens with the word “spring,” which is a picture of a water source. In the ancient world a well or cistern was a precious possession, and the image points to a man’s sexual and family life as something that gives refreshment and life. The father asks that this source be “blessed,” meaning kept good, honored, and made to flourish within its proper place.
The second sentence tells the husband to “rejoice” in the wife of his youth. The word means delight and gladness, not duty alone. The “wife of your youth” most naturally refers to the woman he married early in life, the one who has grown with him over the years. The verse encourages steady, glad commitment to that relationship.
What the verse does not do is promise that a marriage will always feel exciting or that every difficulty will disappear. It describes an attitude and a choice: to take delight in the person God has given you and to guard that bond from what would erode it.
The Context of Proverbs 5:18
Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings meant to form character and teach the young how to live well before the Lord. Chapter 5 is a warning against adultery, and the surrounding verses (5:15 to 5:21) use the image of water: drink from your own cistern, and do not let your springs spill into the streets. The water imagery runs through the whole passage, so verse 18 reads as the positive counterpart to the warning that follows.
Verse 21 then grounds the whole teaching in God’s oversight: the ways of a person are before the Lord, who examines every path. That is why the father can speak so plainly about faithfulness. Joy in one’s own marriage is presented not as a private preference but as a life lived in the sight of a God who notices and cares.
Key Phrases in Proverbs 5:18
Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
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This verse calls marriage honorable among all and asks that the marriage bed be kept pure. It echoes the same conviction found in Proverbs 5:18: faithfulness within marriage is a good that God values and protects.
Ecclesiastes 9:9
Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your life of vanity, which he has given you under the sun, all your days of vanity: for that is your portion in life, and in your labor in which you labor under the sun.
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Ecclesiastes encourages enjoying life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your life. It reinforces the idea that gladness in one’s spouse is a gift to receive gratefully rather than a burden to endure.
A Short Prayer From Proverbs 5:18
Lord, you know the marriages we carry and the places where our hearts wander. Keep our eyes on the person you have given us. Help us to bless what is good between us, to guard it with care, and to receive our daily bread of love with thankful hearts. Where we have grown cold, warm us again. Where we have grown restless, settle us in your faithfulness. Make our homes places of gladness that honor you. Amen.
