Lamentations 5:20 is a question the writer asks God when it feels like the Lord has forgotten his people for good. It is not a statement of doubt about God’s character so much as a raw plea from someone who cannot understand why the suffering seems to go on and on. The speaker is the community of Jerusalem, or the poet speaking for them, after the city has been destroyed by the Babylonians.
Why do you forget us forever, and forsake us for so long a time?
Lamentations 5:20 (WEB)
What Lamentations 5:20 Means
The verse begins with “Why,” which is the language of complaint rather than calm inquiry. The writer is not asking for information. He is pouring out grief and wanting God to see it. The phrase “forget us forever” expresses the fear that God has stopped paying attention, that the covenant promises have been set aside. “Forsake us for so long a time” stretches the sense of abandonment across an unbearable span of years.
What the verse does not do is deny God’s faithfulness. The person praying has just said, in the verse before, that the Lord remains forever and his throne endures from generation to generation. The question is asked from inside that confidence. The verse promises no quick answer, and it does not tell the reader that the sense of abandonment is false. It gives permission to ask the question out loud.
The Context of Lamentations 5:20
Lamentations is a collection of five poems mourning the fall of Jerusalem in 586 BC, when the Babylonian army destroyed the city and the temple. Tradition ascribes the book to the prophet Jeremiah, though the text itself does not name its author. The audience is the surviving community, and the poems are written as a form of communal grief that refuses to hide the pain behind easy religious language.
Read in context, verse 20 sits in the middle of a passage that moves from lament into petition. Verse 18 describes Zion lying desolate, with foxes prowling through the ruins. Verse 21 begins the turn back to God with the words “Turn us to yourself,” and verse 22 returns to the sense of rejection. Seeing this rhythm helps the reader understand that the question in verse 20 is a stage in the prayer, not its final word.
Key Phrases in Lamentations 5:20
Psalm 13:1-2
1 How long, the LORD? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? 2 How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart every day? How long shall my enemy triumph over me?
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This psalm opens with the same kind of question, “How long, Lord?”, and moves from despair toward trust. Reading it alongside Lamentations 5:20 shows how the honest question and the turn toward hope belong together in the prayer life of God’s people.
Lamentations 3:22-23
22 It is because of the LORD’s loving kindnesses that we are not consumed, because his compassion doesn’t fail. 23 They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness.
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Found in the same book, these verses speak of God’s steadfast love and faithfulness renewed every morning. They offer a counterweight to the sense of abandonment in chapter 5, showing that the lament is held within a larger confidence in God’s mercy.
A Short Prayer From Lamentations 5:20
Lord, I bring you the questions I do not know how to hold. Some days it feels as though you have forgotten me, and the waiting seems longer than I can bear. You have not hidden yourself from people who cry out to you, and so I cry out now. Help me remember that you remain forever, even when I cannot see how. Turn my heart back to you, and give me patience to trust you for the answer. Amen.
