This guide gives you ready-made study questions for Esther 5, the chapter where Esther steps into the king’s court uninvited and then invites Haman to two banquets. It works for a small group, a Sunday class or a personal quiet time. Each question comes with a leader’s note so you can facilitate without preparing a separate summary.
Esther 5 at a Glance
Esther 5 opens with a risk. On the third day of her fast, Esther dresses in royal clothing and stands in the inner court, where approaching the king without being summoned could cost her life. The king extends his scepter, and she is spared. He asks what she wants, and she invites him and Haman to a banquet.
At the banquet the king asks again, and Esther again delays, inviting them to a second banquet the next day. The chapter then shifts to Haman, who leaves elated but is ruined by the sight of Mordecai refusing to bow. His wife and friends suggest a gallows, and Haman has it built.
Observation Questions
Use these questions first, before anyone offers an opinion. Ask the group to point to the exact words in the text, and let the silence sit for a moment before moving on to the next question.
Esther 5:2
When the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, she obtained favor in his sight; and the king held out to Esther the golden scepter that was in his hand. So Esther came near, and touched the top of the scepter.
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Read this verse to show the danger of Esther’s approach and the surprising favor she receives. It anchors the discussion of courage and grace that runs through the chapter.
Esther 5:4
Esther said, “If it seems good to the king, let the king and Haman come today to the banquet that I have prepared for him.”
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Read Esther’s modest request aloud to highlight how little she asks for compared with what she was offered. This verse invites the group to consider restraint and timing.
Esther 5:9
Then Haman went out that day joyful and glad of heart, but when Haman saw Mordecai in the king’s gate, that he didn’t stand up nor move for him, he was filled with wrath against Mordecai.
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This verse captures the moment Haman’s joy turns to wrath over Mordecai. Reading it aloud helps the group see how one slight can overshadow every good thing.
Esther 5:13
Yet all this avails me nothing, so long as I see Mordecai the Jew sitting at the king’s gate.”
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Haman’s confession that all his honor means nothing while Mordecai sits at the gate is the emotional center of the chapter. Read it slowly so the group can feel its weight.
Esther 5:14
Then Zeresh his wife and all his friends said to him, “Let a gallows be made fifty cubits high, and in the morning speak to the king about hanging Mordecai on it. Then go in merrily with the king to the banquet.” This pleased Haman, so he had the gallows made.
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End the reading with the advice to build the gallows, which closes the chapter on a note of rising danger. It sets up the story’s next turn and prompts reflection on counsel.
Memory Verse for Esther 5
A Closing Prayer for the Group
Father, we come to you aware of how often we rush ahead or hold on to hurts we should release. Give us the courage Esther showed when she stood in the court, and the patience she showed when she waited to speak. Loosen the grip of resentment on our hearts, so that we can enjoy the good things you have given us without letting one slight consume us. Surround us with wise companions who encourage what is good and tell us the truth. Help us trust that you are at work even when the outcome is unclear. Amen.
