This lesson teaches children that wise choices build a strong life and that we should not copy people who do wrong. It works well for children aged about 5 to 11 and takes 20 to 30 minutes to teach, with time for questions and an activity.
Big Idea
God wants us to be wise, to make good choices, and to stay away from friends who do wrong. When we fall down, God helps us get back up.
Memory Verse
Proverbs 24:3
Through wisdom a house is built; by understanding it is established…
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Ask the children to hold their hands together like a roof, then lift them up slowly as you say the verse. Ask them to stack their hands like building blocks each time you say the word “house.”
The Story: Proverbs 24 for Kids
Long ago, a wise teacher wrote down some helpful sayings for his son. He wanted his son to grow up strong and kind. In these sayings, he taught that wisdom is like a builder who makes a house firm and steady. Wise choices help a family stand strong over many years.
The teacher warned his son not to be jealous of people who do wrong things. Those people might seem to have fun, but their hearts make plans to hurt others. He said, “Do not be jealous of bad men, and do not wish to be with them.” Bad choices can lead to a bad end, but good choices bring hope.
Then the teacher gave another picture. He said a person might fall down, even more than once. But a righteous person gets up again. God helps him rise. The wicked, however, get tripped up by their own trouble. So the teacher said, “Do not be glad when your enemy falls.” Instead, we should trust God to do what is right.
The teacher also talked about being honest. He said a true answer is as kind as a warm kiss. He taught that we should not lie about our friends or trick people with our words. He reminded his son that laziness brings trouble, too. A field left alone grows full of thorns, and a person who sleeps too much may find poverty creeping in like a robber.
The teacher ended with a simple message. A life of wisdom, hard work, honesty, and trust in God is a life that stands firm. Those who follow these sayings build something that lasts.
Read It Together
Proverbs 24:1-2
1 Don’t be envious of evil men; neither desire to be with them: 2 for their hearts plot violence, and their lips talk about mischief.
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Point out that the teacher warns against wanting to be like people who do evil. Ask the children why it is hard to say no to friends who are doing wrong, and remind them that God gives them strength to choose differently.
Proverbs 24:16
For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises up again; but the wicked are overthrown by calamity.
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Show the children that falling down does not mean the end. Explain that God helps good people get back up. Let them know that everyone makes mistakes, and God is ready to help us try again.
Proverbs 24:26
An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.
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Talk about how a truthful answer can be a kind gift. Point out that telling the truth with love helps people feel cared for. Ask the children to think of one way they can speak honestly this week.
Talk About It
- What is one wise choice you made this week, and how did it help you?
- Why do you think the teacher said not to be jealous of people who do bad things?
- What can you do when you feel like giving up after you make a mistake?
- How can you be a good friend to someone who is making poor choices?
- What does it mean to give someone an honest answer, and why is that kind?
Activity Ideas
Build a Wise House Drawing
You will need paper, crayons or markers, and a pencil. Ask each child to draw a house with a strong roof and firm walls, then write or draw one wise choice on each wall. Explain that wisdom builds a house that stands firm, just like the teacher described in the story.
Stand Up Again Game
You will need an open space and a soft cushion or pillow. Have the children stand in a circle. Call out a wise choice, and everyone sits down, then pops back up as they say together, “God helps me stand up again!” Repeat several times to remind children that falling down is not the end.
Honest Words Card
You will need index cards, a marker, and a pencil. Ask each child to write or draw a kind, honest sentence they can say to someone at home, such as “Thank you for helping me.” Let them take the card home and put it on the fridge as a reminder to speak truthfully and kindly.
Teacher Notes
For adults, this chapter is a collection of practical wisdom: choose good company, work hard, speak the truth, and rely on God when you fall. The sayings describe how character shapes the life a person builds over time, and they remind us that God sees our hearts and our work.
When teaching children, avoid implying that God only helps people who never fall. Be careful not to suggest that bad things always happen to bad people in a simple way, since the chapter speaks in wise sayings rather than promises that every situation will turn out this way.
A Prayer to Close
Dear God, help us to be wise in the things we do and say. Help us stay away from choices that hurt people, and help us be honest and kind. When we fall down, help us get back up and trust You to lead us. Thank You for loving us. Amen.
