Proverbs 3:31 tells you not to envy a violent person and not to adopt any of his ways. The reason is that envy quietly pulls your heart toward his path, and his path leads away from God’s favor. The verse belongs to a series of short instructions in the book of Proverbs, traditionally attributed to Solomon, and it is addressed to a young person being taught to walk in wisdom.
Don’t envy the man of violence. Choose none of his ways.
Proverbs 3:31 (WEB)
What Proverbs 3:31 Means
The verse begins with the word “envy,” which describes a resentful wish for something someone else has. The writer warns you not to look at a man who gets ahead by force and to feel a pull toward his success. Envy often starts as a small comparison, and this verse says to stop it before it grows into imitation.
The phrase “the man of violence” describes someone who gains advantage through harm, intimidation, or cruelty toward others. The second sentence, “choose none of his ways,” moves from feeling to action. It asks you to make a deliberate decision not to copy his methods, even when they seem to work.
The verse does not promise that the violent will be punished right away, nor does it say that you will be rewarded by avoiding them. Its focus is on the direction of your own character. Proverbs teaches throughout that the path you choose shapes who you become, and this verse guards your heart against a path that looks attractive but is destructive.
The Context of Proverbs 3:31
Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings written to shape character and daily conduct. Chapter 3 opens with a father’s voice urging his son to trust the Lord and keep his commands. The verses around 3:31 move through practical matters: being fair with a neighbor, not stirring up needless quarrels, and not plotting harm against someone who lives nearby. Verse 31 fits naturally into this list of warnings against wrong behavior toward others.
The surrounding verses also place the matter within a larger contrast. Verse 32 says the perverse are an abomination to the Lord, while his friendship rests with the upright. Verse 34 adds that God mocks the mockers and gives grace to the humble. Read in this setting, the warning against envying the violent is part of a larger teaching: the Lord is aligned with righteousness, so the believer should not be drawn toward the violent man’s ways.
Key Phrases in Proverbs 3:31
Psalm 37:1
Don’t fret because of evildoers, neither be envious against those who work unrighteousness.
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This psalm echoes the warning against envy by telling you not to fret over those who do wrong. Read together with Proverbs 3:31, it teaches that envy of the wicked is a temptation the Lord’s people are called to resist by trusting in his justice.
Proverbs 24:1-2
1 Don’t be envious of evil men; neither desire to be with them: 2 for their hearts plot violence, and their lips talk about mischief.
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These verses warn you not to envy evil people or desire to be among them, because their hearts plot violence. They deepen the teaching of Proverbs 3:31 by showing why the violent man’s company and methods should never attract you.
A Short Prayer From Proverbs 3:31
Lord, you see the places in my heart where I measure my life against others and feel the pull of envy. When I watch people gain what they want through harm or pressure, help me turn away from their ways and not follow them. Guard my choices, so that each day I walk in your fairness and humility. Give me patience to trust your justice and grace to keep my hands and words clean. Amen.
